Oh, attachment styles! Where should I start? Over the past year I have done some spelunking into this deep, dark cave full of shadows. There are so many twists and turns in those tunnels down there. I have really been trying to just sort it all out. The more I learned, the more questions I had. Amazingly, there was a point where everything started coming together and making sense. That’s when the rubber hit the road for me and (seemingly) abrupt, pivotal decisions were happening all over the place. No one knew how deep into these caverns I was diving, how carefully I was examining each new piece of information I uncovered. Once my quest began, there was no turning back. I just had to understand this and “fix” my life. It was getting too difficult to navigate the complexities of my relationships. There had to be a better way!

Coming back out into the light of day with all my sacks full of newfound knowledge, I’ve been working on the peripheral tasks of creating a container to hold and distribute this information, this website. I want to present everything I’ve learned in its most functional form, useful to you… immediately. I have managed to live for several decades without this knowledge and believe me I have struggled!

It all starts with a question I bet you ask yourself a lot. ‘Why did I do that?’ Well… I figured out why and now I can change the trajectory of my own path. I befriended the very shadow that has been working against me since childhood. My new bestie and I are looking forward to happy, secure relationships from here on out.  Stay tuned for my first article in this series, Attachment Theory. 😊I’ll post as soon as I’m done.